insecurity kills!

humans are never perfect.even if they appear to have the confidence that no one on earth has, they still do feel insecurity.i know someone.she is like such a strong person,untouchable and not to say,self-confident:thumbs up!but she came to me few days ago, telling me that she's feeling very insecure being herself!and that was a total shock for me.so,we continue talking. she told me, that she never ever ever felt anything like that before,but she's feeling it now.it strikes my head how and why does people like that feels insecurity?i know this girl for a very very long time.she is just how she is.not knowing what people think and even if she knows it, she wouldn't care.and she told me something.
"i appear to be strong,and i know i am.but when things like this happen,it's really hard to tell people,what you're feeling.because they see how strong you stand,and guess wht do they have in mind,NOTHING COULD EVER BRING DOWN PEOPLE LIKE THIS.the moment you tell them, "im feeling insecure",there are like thousands of WHY coming out of their mouth;bullets of why.and sometimes,get it straight,people!explanation is not always easy.eventhough i know wht im feeling,saying it out,my words are all over the place..and worse of all,suddenly all the blame goes to me".this is what she told me.hearing her talking all these things out, i know the hardest thing for her is that she is unable to talk to anyone about it.coz it's hard finding people who will understand.if this is an experiment,and im the one making report, who know what's my conclusion going to be?
conclusion:it is a guilt for confidence people to feel insecure.



and yeah, she did ask me on ways of handling insecurity, and i feel terrible,coz all i can say is i dont know.i really really have no idea.nway,hope that thing called insecurity goes away ASAP coz by just looking at it, IT KILLS.it really is killing!